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writes:My boyfriend broke up with me 6 months ago... We dated for about 3-4 weeks and he broke up with me because we live in diferent towns and my mum wont let me go visit his town because she doesn't trust me... After he broke up with me we decided to still be friends... we haven't spoken much since then... Recently we have been chatting more because he has been in hospital and I have been ill for a while now... Since we have started chatting again I started to realize that I still have feelings for him and I don't know what to do... I want to meet up with him at summer but I'm super shy and I don't know if its the right thing to do... Please help me decide what to do...
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (2 June 2016):
 Then you can't go. Maturely explain (don't whine) to your mum that you can't go by train on your own and see what she says.
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reader, Hellarandom +, writes (2 June 2016):
Hellarandom is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy mum would let me go visit him at summer because my grandparents live in a town not to far from where he goes to visit his friends... Whilst we were dating my grandparents were on a long trip and they returned only 2 months ago... The only way to go to his town without driving there is to go by train and my mum would never let me go on a train by my self... She let's me go out by myself...
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (2 June 2016):
Honeypie is right - your mum likely knows best, in this situation, and you shouldn't meet up with him on your own, anyway. Talk to her, ask for her advice and see what she thinks. If she says you can't go there, respect that - it's important to trust her judgement, if you want her to ever trust you.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (1 June 2016):
 I think you need to talk this over with your mom and respect whatever decision SHE makes.
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