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writes: I am in relationship with the most amazing guy. I love him deeply and would do anything for him. We had been together about three months now, still getting to know each other, telling things from the past, but mine is a bad one which I wish to forget...My last boyfriend finished with me about eight months ago, told me he didn't love me any more. But of course at the time i still had feeling for him. Even though we were apart, we were still good friends and meet up time to time. But when we were alone he told me of how much he still cared for me, only to get me to sleep with him a few times. I felt soo bad because I knew that I had been used and lost touch with him for a while.Then months after I meet my new partner. My ex came round a few times for someone to talk too. He knew full well of my new relationship but three times tried it on with me. ( but nothing of the sexual nature happened ) I know it sounds stupid but each time thought that he would respect me enough to leave me alone. I told my partner what had happened and he went mad, but said he knew i didn't do anything wrong. I believe he doesn't trust me now and will have trouble in the future trusting me. But i keep thinking of what happened and feel bad and dump for not telling him to leave me alone from the start. But its now causing problems between me and my partner, even though we knew he only did it to spilt us up out of spit. Will this end our relationship because of what happened or only with me think on the past??I don't want to lose what i av. Thank you
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2005): If this ends your relationship, this man isn't any good. He needs to deal with his jealousness in a more productive manner. You've obviously done nothing wrong, and have no reason not to be trusted. If he doesn't see that, then he doesn't deserve to see you at all.I think maybe you should take a look inside yourself and your life and ask yourself why you let yourself be treated like this first by your ex and now your new man? Remember your self-worth is not made up if whether or not some male wants you.
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