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writes:The guys at work wind me up, as I like this girl. And she has ultimately won me over. When I see her I say hello, she asks if I'm alright and then I gave her an answer back and then I'll ask her. After I left this guy said good stuff, really loudly at work and I felt really embarassed, as it was a short answer to her. She's the gorgeous version of a mila kunis, and as she's an attractive lady, I have to think fast of an answer.We became friends almost immediately on social media and at work and things seem to have gone from strength to strength with her. I've not come across as needy, bombarded her with messages and ive backed off and given her the space she needs. I felt being friends with her was the right thing to do, with her being new at work and I wanted to make sure she felt settled and by being friends with her, would give her the confidence she needs.While things are going well and I'm playing it cool. I'd like to ask her out but don't know if it's worth It as I don't want to risk losing her friendship.Any thoughts on this?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (20 June 2016):
 The thing is do you really think off her as a friend or a potential partner? I don't think your intentions where ever to be her friend, you fancied her as soon as she began working with you, and that is okay. It is good to start getting to know someone as a friend first to see if you both get on well.
If you like her then ask her out, if she says no then yes it could be strange for a while, but if you are friends you can get back on track, don't let it get awkward. Plus if she says yes it could be the start of something wonderful.
I do admit it might not be a great idea starting a romance with someone you work with, but sometimes you need to give things a chance.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (17 June 2016):
 Quae dant, quaeque negant, guadent tamen esse rogatae.
(Whether they give or refuse women are glad to have been asked.)
Ovid.
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