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writes: i dated my first love for 3 years and 2 years on and off.will i find love again? and will i always have feelings for her? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Rey +, writes (27 May 2008):
Man, I just broke up with my 1st love in November and even thought she treated me badly and I had to break up with her I still thinking about her EVERYDAY. It doesn't help that she calls me everyday as "Just friends" I guess.
I like to think that there's someone out there way better for me. I'm sure she's out there for you too.
Gawd, I miss the sex though.
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reader, secondbestinthis +, writes (27 May 2008):
You will, to both questions ;) You will find love again, absolutely! You will also always have feelings for her, but not the crushing, soul draining feelings that you probably have now. They will fade and you'll just remember your time together as a part of your past with affection. I wish you so much luck! It WILL get better, but it takes a few years...
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): If you loved her then you will possibly always have those feelings for her inside you, even if you meet someone else, love always stays with you - even if it's not active, it's just.. there.
But of course you can find love again, there will be someone else out there that you will feel that way about again, just a matter of finding her I suppose.
Best of luck!!
xx Hope xx
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