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30-35,
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writes:Basically, me and my boyfriend broke up a few days ago... I cried for hours, it basically ruined my vacation... I still feel like crap... Basically because I'm very lonely as it is... I don't really have any friends to my name, I didn't depend on him, don't take it that way, I let him have his free time and stuff.Well, of course at first I was devastated. He said "It didn't feel right" and "I can't be in a relationship anymore" and "I honestly love you, I can't handle a relationship" I didn't understand at first because I did think it was love myself. Then this morning I realized it wasn't... And I just lost my best and only friend... We were best friends before we started dating... Well coming to the question I'm going to ask...I text him this morning and said "Look... I do know where your coming from... And I personally think breaking up was best for us... Because your too much of a best friend to me :/ Can we just get back to being best friends again? Because I do love you just not in that way, in a best friend kinda way."In all honesty, do you think he will text me back? :/
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 Well sweetie you need to get yourself some friends, you need some girls to help you through a break-up...teenage boys just don't do the job sometimes. They threaten to beat the other up and that makes us laugh but you need a comforting shoulder to cry on. And of course agony aunts and uncles will always be here too.
Now, you were in a relationship with your best friend that's tricky because it could go either way it could work out, or a break-up then things get awkward for a while and depending how long you two have been friends you may be able to get back that friendship. This is why I keep my guy friends and boyfriends in separate categories, never mix the 2. You sent it this morning and now it's the evening in Britain? Honestly, I don't think he's going to text back it's too soon to be friends again. Don't get me wrong that was a well said text maybe minus the love you part..But, he needs him time and space to get over this break-up and so do you. Give it some time like a few weeks even a month then approach or text him and see if you guys can go back to being friends. For now, I suggest you make some new friends!
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