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writes: Will he get back to me?The other day I discovered my "man" still had feelings for his ex. I truly love him and told him I would be prepared to wait for him, but seeing I was also a bit annoyed with him I also told him I didn't know when I would see him again.Anyway, I havn't heard from him for a few days but he knows I will want him - so will he get back to me - or do men just like time to think things over?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): In my opinon i dont think you should of said "your prepared to wait". If you love him and respect he should do the same for you. Dont wait for him because thats like saying when ever he wants you he can have you. Have a one on one conversation with him and tell him how you feel, you cant wait forever because he may choose his ex over you. THERE ARE MANY FISH IN THE SEA. Take control GIRLL !
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (23 March 2009):
Why on earth did you tell him you'd be willing to wait for him? He knows he has you in his back pocket. Get busy, go out with your friends, go on dates and hopefully he will hear about it and realize you aren't sitting home waiting for his call. You may even find a guy who worships the very ground you walk on. Good luck and go get 'em girlfriend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2009): I think he's just trying to sort out all his feelings.
Maybe contact him in a few days if you still haven't heard from him?
From what you say, it sounds like he knows you are upset with him and the situation - perhaps he's giving you a chance to cool off too.
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