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writes:I just ended a pretty horrible 2 and a half year relationship. There is no justification but I did it through text message. Each time we talked on the phone prior to break up it would start and I would say that I wanted to break up and then he would just grid me down and by the end of the call we would be back together. In the end I felt the only way I could do this was to just text him.I know what I did was disrespectful but do you think he will ever forgive me
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2014): Thanks. I really needed to hear something like that! X
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (17 October 2014):
 Why on earth would you stay on a call long enough to be ground down and kept in a relationship you want out of? I would have just hung up on him.
I doubt he's given up as you appear very easy to manipulate.
Shout hosannahs and do little happy dances, put on some great break up music, "I Will Survive" being my particular favorite, and DON'T ANSWER IF HE CALLS. Don't respond if he texts.
You sound far too concerned about his feelings and not enough about yours. ENOUGH ALREADY.
Woman up, for heaven's sake! Stick to it and don't spend any more time worrying about what he's thinking. He's an EX, let him deal with it himself.
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reader, RubyBirtle +, writes (17 October 2014):
Don't feel bad. You did what you had to do.
But it doesn't matter whether he forgives you or not. He's history and you're not going back.
No-one can tell whether he will forgive you or not. Like with everything, time will lessen his pain and the way you dumped him will no longer matter as he moves on. He will get over it
How and when he achieves this is up to him and none of your concern any more.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (17 October 2014):
 If it was a horrible relationship then why would you care if he forgave or not? Be glad you are shed of him.
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