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writes: I have a pretty bad overbite, and at the end of next month i will be getting braces. But i am really worried that once i get them i am never going to have a boyfriend. And that may sound weird, but it's the decideing factor in weither i am going to get them or not. I know in the long run i will be happy but i will have them for 2-5 years... i'm 15 now, and if i have them till i'm 20 i don't think i could handle that. I don't really have anything going for me now anyways, acne, a little overweight... braces might just make my chances of meeting someone worse.Do you think guys will care that i have braces? Do you think they will make my chances of meeting someone less? Is it worth it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 July 2006): Ms. Anon, having those braces fix your teeth is a very good thing. It rids headaches caused by misaligned teeth, allows you to chew food properly, even speak properly.
If u'r considering sacrificing braces to be 'more attractive' to boys at age 15, then can I have some permission to laugh at you? 8]
Seriously tho, braces may or may not be an asthetic turn-off. This depends on the person. If you're embarrassed, it's a natural feeling. I had braces when I was a teen. Wow, were they painful, but I have near-perfectly aligned teeth nowadays. This long-term result is good...
Going around in circles, office hot, need cool air... [flops]
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2006): No way, you may get the odd coment from some idiots. I had braces and once they come off my teeth were perfectly straight. Trust me you will apperciate it all when you get them off =D
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reader, Bev Conolly  +, writes (20 July 2006):
 Some very good, thoughtful advice here! If I just add my own two cents, braces for a few years beats a lifetime of overbite hands down!
Think long-term.
Braces until you're 19 or 20? Or weird, crooked teeth until you're 90? You decide!
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reader, tux  +, writes (20 July 2006):
 Dont worry about braces.. teeth problaly isn't what most guys look at or for anyways.. and if they are and don't date you because of the braces.. they are not worth it and will be regretting it when you have straight teeth later in life and they are with someone who chose not to get braces and have crooked teeth.. not that one should be that superficial about stuff to begin with.. This is why.. when you get older.. you are not going to look the same.. those in things for looks will be disappointed later on in life..
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (19 July 2006):
 Hi dearie,
Truthfully it depends on the particular guy. I am afraid we have alot of different people in this world now and have lost the idea of what is important And being a teenager that age realm is not easy since you have alot to deal with. Such persons though who wouldnt date you becos you are on braces are superficial and they are not even worth hanging with.If your doctors feel that braces will help you and u really require them then think about yourself first and forget others. A guy who really likes you will look through everything and see the real you. Believe me that is the mistakes alot of people make and are still making. Dont pick people who would want to be with you sorely on looks.
I would give u some advise on acne. Acne is a common problem among teenager and adults. Make sure u wash your face twice a day both morning and evening before u sleep.If u can get a soap that exfoliates.Drink plenty of water to flush through u system and if u can get a cleansing and toning lotion which will depend on your skin type that is if you have oily, normal or dry skin. You can get a toner as this helps you remove spots and get you an even tone. they are many products u can use now just get some to advise u depending on your skin type.some natural products include avocado pear treatment to make a face mask. Just peel the inside, apply it on your face. You can use slices of cucumber to treat the eye region, round the eyes. Also, lime water helps your skin but u have to dilute it properly and use as cleanser if there are too expensive for you to get.Please remember ask a beatician for help and direct consultation for more since i dont know the extent of your attacks and scalding.
For weight problem if u can try doing more sports in school or going to the gymn. U can also try having a good dietician to help u. fruits and vegetables are good and non-fatty. Please note that on no account is it advisable to stop eating as a way to loose weight.
Be confident of yourself the way you are that will attract people. Go out make friend and enjoy useful, dont let anyone spoil your spirit or put you down.
Goodluck.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (19 July 2006):
 I think any guy worth his salt will see past the braces. I ahd double train tracks fro the best part of four years and before that a head set brace that I had to wear for eighteen hours a day for about 6 months. I ahd a bf and no problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 July 2006): Get the braces, even if you have to wait 5 years, think about when youre 21-looking good! Also, a good boyfriend (the kind you want!), would not judge if you had braces and really could care less. I know from my experience, most guys don't care about braces, and the ones that do aren't worth it!! Put yourself first-dont worry about what guys will think because they will always be there. You wouldn't want to pass on the braces, then regret it years later.
Hope it helps!!
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reader, dummyduckling +, writes (19 July 2006):
 hey braces are nothing to worry about i have them im 16 and ive had my braces sine 2 weeks before my 14th birthday
and to be honest more guys have been interested since i got them then before hand! some guys find braces cute. dont worrie about braces just remeber keep them clean if u do get then coz if u dont u will regret it in the long run. be warned u will get the mick taken out of you at first but guys genrally tend to not notice these things and theres so many people with them that they will be less noticable. good luck hunni.
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reader, angelicdivauk +, writes (19 July 2006):
 They are definately worth it. Squint teeth are such a turn-off for guys. In later life (after like, 2 yrs) You will be soooo happy that you went through with it. Try and be happy with yourself babexxx
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