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*ave1771
writes:Odd Question, I have been happily married for 30 yrs. Throughout three children, my wife's vagina has remained extremely tight. Is it normal for me to want her looser sometimes? I buy bigger toys to play with beforehand so when I get "up to bat", shes a bit looser and, I kinda like the "used" feel..? I'm just wondering if that's a normal thing or am I being weird?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 August 2021):
 Nothing wrong with liking a bit of a change to what you "normally" have :)
As long as you don't make it INTO a problem, right?
I'd say enjoy that you have a wife who still enjoys you and intimacy with you :)
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reader, Dave1771 +, writes (12 August 2021):
Dave1771 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you to those who answered. I think I may have not explained what I was asking correctly. I understand the science behind why she loose/tight at times. My question is more about, is it normal for me to want to feel her looser sometimes? Instead of her being tight all the time. (Which is nice). I just really like that looser, used, feeling sometimes and I was wondering if that was normal or weird?
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (12 August 2021):
Amen to FA.
"What you are describing has to do with healthy muscle tone."
No, the vagina is not like a sock that gets " super loose" after children years. It's a muscle.
Reasons this could be
1. she might not be SUFFICIENTLY aroused. The solution is easy, with better foreplay on your end.
2. she might be dryer below (due to menopause) thus it feels too tight. The solution is also easy, lube.
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (12 August 2021):
 Well some study of human anatomy and physiology wouldn't be amiss.
What you are describing has to do with healthy muscle tone. It is often under conscious control. Open and honest communication is your friend here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 August 2021): Try other sex toys,positions and other stretching methods or quit having sex with her
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