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writes:All,my boyfriend and i hv been together for a year. Im 27 and hes 28. Im sometimes jealous and its been a rocky relationship. I dont think he ever cheated but he is a big flirt and has a high sex drive. Now he wants to go on a vacation alone to costa rica and backpack to colombia.. He is latino but born and raised in the netherlands. He is really looking forward to this trip and he will be away for christmas and newyear. Now he insist that i cant come along cuz im jealous and he said he will not call often cuz its expensive!? i dont know what to do anymore please help! i feel offended and hurt cuz he exclude me in his life- i know this trip is important to to him cuz its the first time since years h..es been to his homecountry and he likes latinas and im dutch... Im afraid ge will cheat since he wats freedom over there.. And its during holidays he will party and drink.. Wouldnt he want his gf to b with him if its si important and fun???? helppp should i dump him
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): Don't blame you for feeling like you do - you've been dating a year and you would think he would want to share this trip as its so important to him
If you don't finish it then you will face months/weeks of wondering what he's up to and little contact via very few phone calls
If you end it then he can do as he wants and so can you..without having to care or worry what he's up to. If when he returns you both want to meet,talk then fine but at least you will have peace of mind and freedom now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): Yeah, if you don't trust him then leave him. You can't tell him what to do or accompany him places just because you're afraid he'll cheat. You can't also make him want to settle down and stay at home. Either accept him how he is and be confident and positive or find someone else who is more of what you want. Men will end up leaving or cheating when they feel you don't trust them or want them to change.
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