A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Sometimes I just don't understand my boyfriend or is it me to blame? We always fight at least once a week and I'm fed up. And he never wants to talk about the fight later because he says he'll get mad again . Like today , I was suppose to meet him at the library to study but I told him earlier don't give me a time to come because I'm having a fever n I wanted to eat, shower n take medicine before I go . He predicted a time I'll be there and when it was 35 mins before the time he predicted he got irritated at me for him being always right. I told him again that I was sick and I just wanted to finish my food and things before I leave but he didn't want to hear it instead he said I am always late and his annoyed at me because it doesn't look like I want to study at the library. But I already told him I was ready and about to walk there so I don't know why he would say such things. I got really angry for once today because I couldnt stand the fact he always says his right and he doesn't care to hear my reasons, he thinks are excuses and the funny think was he was so sweet the night before taking care of me because I had a fever and cold. I'm so sick of his attitude of not caring as soon as I don't follow his ways and I don't know how to make him realize that he act that way hurts me ? When I try to tell him how I feel , he twist things around to make it about him instead and it's like talking to a wall. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (19 September 2011):
 Your submittal could have been lifted from a textbook about classic passive-aggressive controlling behaviour.
The only "question" is: Do you want to continue in this cycle with this guy? .... or do you want to come to your senses, see what it's all about, and go find a sensible B/F?????
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