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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:For some reason i am punishing myself for likeing this one guy. I hate that i think about him, and want to get to know him better. I met him maybe a week ago, but I am married. My marriage is going through a really hard time right now and the last thing i want to do is think about some other guy. I know for sure nothing would ever really happen, but for some reason I want it to. Its kind of confusing. But when i do think about this guy, my thoughts always center around me not being attractive enough, or i think about how me and my husband are, and i just feel like there would be absolutely no way some one else could be in to me. I really haven't had a crush in such a long time, i don't understand why it is making me sad. I just do not understand all this emotion that is going on in me. how do i make it stop?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 September 2009):
Your marriage is going through a hard time, so you're looking for comfort. Your crush is just that, a crush. The way to stop it is to really work very hard on your marriage. Go out with your husband, spend time with him and that spark will come back. Don't hate yourself, you haven't done anything wrong. If you're really worried, tell your husband that you feel you both need to work harder at your marriage and maybe see a cousellor. Lots of luck. x
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