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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I recently reconnected with my ex and we ended up spending a really nice evening together. He said that he had been missing me and that he still cared. That was on Sunday and he hasn't called me yet. I can't understand why he would say those things to me and not really mean it. I feel think he should be bending over backwards to win me back but he seems so lazy about it. Is he serious about this or is he just trying to play me somehow??
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reader, red1982 +, writes (8 February 2008):
He may be thinking the exact same thing and is wanting to call you but is worried about your reaction. You could always try ringing him and ask him if he would like to meet up again. At least that way you have your answer. He either does want get back together or doesn't and worrying all week isn't going to help you make your mind up. At least if he turns you down you can move on.
As for why he would say these things if he doesn't mean it -I'm baffled. Unless he was trying to get you back into bed that night?? I'm not sure.
But if I was you I would ring him and out your mind at rest.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (8 February 2008):
You can call him and then find out or confirmed your fears.You don't have to fret everyday about his non calling.
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