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writes:This guy i like knows i like him and he likes me and wants me to be his gf, i have told him i am ok with being his friend soi giess he is ok with it since we still text, but just recently he ignored more for a week and i texted but no response, then out of the blue he sends me nude picts, why?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): Well ,Sweetie ..I think the obvious answer is he's looking for sex. He doesnt care about you, and if you find that attractive in anyway, don't take it the wrong way.. but you are just as much as a creep as him . If he has been ignorring you , obviously he's not commited, and is not looking for a true relationship. So, if you are comfortable with this and still turned on. All your gunna get is an emotion-less sex buddy. Trust Me, I've been through this before. It is NOT worth it !! And, please do yourself a favor , and dont return the pics. That's what he's looking for and don't think he's the only one who'll see it. All of his 'friends' will be seeing you too. is that what you want ? Just Trying to help
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (17 July 2010):
 I guess he is being up front. He sends you nude pictures in hope of you returning the favor.
I don't think this guy is looking for a Girlfriend or even a friend.. unless you come with benefits.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): he wants your attention, he wants sex, he is hoping for return pictures, and he doesnt want a loving committed relationship. He is a jerk, and if you answer you are only encouraging him. the more you answer even if it is just friendly chatter, the braver he will get and he will drive you nuts. find someone else that will actually behave with some decency. mal
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reader, woowoo83  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 i think he has done this for attention, to get you to contact him, and maybe also he is just a dirty pervert.
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reader, fishy fish +, writes (17 July 2010):
Maybe someone had hold of his mobile, or maybe it was stolen.
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 Why? Simple, some guys make very bad decisions sometimes. Maybe forward them on to a few of your friends?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): that is internet culture.penis pictures instead of roses and chocolates!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): It may have been an accident ... they do happen, think of the girl who accidently told her dad in a text that she'd lost her virginity. lol. Just brush it off unless it happens again.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (17 July 2010):
 Why do you like this guy if he ignores you and then sends you nudes.... He probably wants you to send nudes back. Im sorry but it doesn't sound like he cares. Sending nudes are for whores or people who are in a committed relationship. If he sent you nudes I think all he wants is sex. If he wanted a serious relationship he would have asked you to be his gf and spent time with you, not ignore you and then send nudes.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (17 July 2010):
 He wants you to do the same, and probably hopes he'd eventually get some no-strings sex out of it as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): How romantic, a nude picture, what's this, the new form of buying flowers for a girl to let her know you're interested, no I'm not being serious. This guy has nothing on his mind apart from sex, let me assure you of this.
No decent guy sends nude photos of himself to a female BEFORE or DURING getting to know her, not IF he really likes her,unless of course he just wants some ' FUN' you know sex without emotional intimacy which most females really want.
Gosh this guy is a creep, sorry, but sending his private parts by text is somewhat alarming, just because it's by text does not mean it doesn't infringe upon indecency - Look at it this way if a guy stripped naked in front of you out, he would be had for indecent exposure, just because we've moved in to a technological age where one communicates via mobile/texts etc, does not mean such behaviour should be any the less alarming.
My guess is, he's hoping you will respond with the same, he's trying to move everything along on a SEX basis only, and please, please DON'T send any photos of yourself to him, naked or otherwise, especially NOT naked or of a sexual nature. If you do they will be sent to all the other creeps he has in his mobile address book, or even on such social networking platforms as Facebook, so be warned!
Why not try to find a nice young man who asks you out, takes you to the movies, hangs out with you and doesn't send naked pictures of himself and treats YOU with respect, as person NOT as a commodity for sex!
Jilly x
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2010): That might be a sign that he wants to get busy with you. Or he feels so comfortable with the relationship that he feels its ok. Thats a tough question but thats just my opinion. (:
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