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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:My friend Rob during these few weeks has been acting like he used to with me except he doesn't talk to me online or text anymore. On the bus he talks to me and he keeps my text messages and read the ones I always send him but he never answers back! Why? He also notices when I've missed school or when I'm not on the bus because nobody talks to him on the bus. Today I was outside because some kid pulled the fire alarm and he came around. He walked around not noticing me and his cousin then he came over and smiled at me. Every time I say something dum or say I went on the carousel he always looks at me weird with a smile and his eyes do a kind of big eyed look. I love it and always smile. I stayed after and he sayed that he was staying after but he was taking the late bus and I was getting picked up. He was a little dissapointed I could tell. So while I was making up work he walked by my shop and looked in on me it was weird. Why would he ignore me then do all this nice things? Do you think he still likes me? What should I do about this situation.If you could please write a big response!Thanks for answering! I like hearing what you have to say
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reader, confusedSTAR +, writes (2 September 2009):
Obviously I could not tell you exactly what he is thinking but my guess would be that he is just nervous about the situation. Maybe he likes you but just does not want to come on too strong so he doesn't reply to every text you send. Or maybe he is just not a texter. I know my boyfriend rarely keeps his phone on him and then when he gets a text he reads it but only responds half the time. Or maybe he is just a flirt and likes you as a friend but never really thought of you as anything more. The best thing you can do is just be honest with him. If he is your friend he will understand. Just sit him down and say "Rob I just want to know what kind of feelings you have for me?" No matter what the response is just make sure you stay calm and don't make it awkward so you guys can stay friends. Hope this helped!
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