Why won't she drop all contact with him?

A male age 41-50, *cott27 writes:

Hi, My wife and I had been together for 5 years before marrying and have lived together as husband and wife for two and a half years since. She recently started a new job at the local pub after having our baby about a year ago. Things have not been so great and she got really distant after starting the new job. She started staying for hours after work and coming home at like 2 or 3am in the morning(she finished at midnight) things got worse and worse until she left me about a month ago. I love her dearly and missing her like crazy. She says she still loves me and just needs some time. But then a few weeks ago after being on the phone with me telling me how much she misses me and loves me she said she needed to go to bed. then a couple of days later she stayed the night with me. I know I shouldn't have but suspicion got the better of me and I looked at the messages in her phone. less than an hour after our phone call she was sending dirty texts to a guy she met working at the pub, saying she wishes he was there doing naughty things to her, how much she misses him and what not. She tells me it was a huge mistake and it never went further than text messages and a few photos.

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