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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I met this guy through a site about over a year ago. After our first exchange of a few messages, he disappeared. Then after a few months he appeared again then disappeared. He appeared again but this time messaged properly and wanted to get to. know me. I thought this time he was serious with communicating. He said he wants someone who will love him, grow old together, etc. He said he loved me after a couple of weeks and said he told his dad about me. We whatsapped mostly and video called about three, four times within 3 months. We never met, as he was abroad for work, which was supposed to last for a couple of weeks but went over a month. (He always seemed to be abroad for work since the first email exchange last year) He stopped replying completely to my messages before New Years. I sent him messages asking him whats wrong, etc.. but nothing. The last message I sent was asking him to block me, as I just want some kind of closure, but he won't even do that. He reads all my messages. Why did he give me hope of happiness then leave without a word? He even said once he's not like other people and he would tell me if he didn't want to speak to me rather than ignore me. I don't understand what happened.. why won't he block me? I feel stupid for falling for someone I never met, I don't know how it happen. Reply to this Question
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reader, WhenCowsAttack  +, writes (15 January 2016):
Oh honey. Grow some ovariesand just block this loser.
You'll feel so much better, I promise.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (15 January 2016):
 Sounds to me like this guy travels a lot and gets bored so chats to a lot of random women, am sorry you got caught up with him, but I agree with the other BLOCK him. Sounds to me like you are just waiting around for him to reply with some pathetic excuse just so you can chat to him again. Don't be that person block him. Good luck.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (15 January 2016):
 Who demand that HE blocks you? JUST block him!
You are not going to get any closure for a guy like that. One who probably was talking to multiple girls and serious with NONE.
Block his ass and move on. THAT... is your closure. That is you saying " oh heck no! I will NOT let a guy treat me that way, bye bye".
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (15 January 2016):
 why do you need/want him to block you?
Why don't you block him for your closure?
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