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writes:Before we went out, he was always chasing me and talking to me all the time. We only went out for a month and didnt even spend that much time together.I told him that we either needed to hang out more or we could just be friends. He said that we should just be friends and we left on good terms. We even joked right after our break up. I havent talked to him since. He doesnt even say hi to me anymore, and when i say hi to him, he responds with a kinda sad hi. yesterday was my birthday and he didnt even say happy bday online, which he always does to other people and he's on the computer a lot. I really dont get it, I want to be friends with him but i dunno why he is like this. I mean HE wanted to be friends and not go out anymore and we never did anything sexual so it shouldnt feel awkward right?
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 September 2008):
I think you just have to ask him what has changed.
It could be that he said that he wanted to be friends but really did not, and was just trying to act cool or play a mind game.
Ask him why he's not speaking to you and don't take any crap. Beat the truth out from him.
It really annoys me when people lie about what they think because they just say what they think you want to hear.
Good Luck!! xx
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