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writes:Hi I posted my scenario earlier. I recently met a guy about 3 months ago, and we started dating. We got extremely serious within a week, we started living together, eating together, sleeping together, going to school together, going to his friends house together, etc. About a month ago, he ended up moving back home to a different state, since he graduated and his family needs him badly due to the death of his younger brother which was about 10 months ago. He called me when he got there, and told me he would call me back, but he never did. Its going to be almost a month next week since i heard from him. I am SOOOOOOOOOOO confused, he never did me wrong ever. Should I just move on? Part of me still thinks he's gonna come back because what we had was real, and part of me is like, its been almost a month, its over. SOO CONFUSED. Any words of advice needed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): I would love to call him, but the thing is, i dont have his number at his parents house. So in a way i have no way of communication with him unless he calls me, and gives me his new number. SOO CONFUSED.. I Know it was fasttt, but we went through a lot together which made as get closer.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (23 May 2008):
 Wow, eating, living and sleeping so soon!! That was fast, fast, fast! He obviously has issues to deal with in his personal life. Also, he may have re-evaluated what had gone on between you and wanted to slow things down or just simply go cold turkey. I don't think you did anything wrong really...just distance, his family. You can always call him and ask how he is?
hope all goes well!!! H.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (23 May 2008):
 you can live on hope but depends how long ure going to wait and let life pass you by, is their no way of getting in touch with him ?.. and in my opinion that he could of atleast phoned once or sent a txt its not time consuming. also maybe things are more complicated and hes dedicating his life to it. maybe you were to quick in the relationship and maybe he thinks it might not work long distant.. you can analyze it many ways to be honest but unless you get answers out of him ure just hitting ure head against a wall.. hope this helps aphex
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): Hmm... sounds like too much, too soon.
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