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writes:Why will he not kiss me on the lips?We have known each other for 3 years through work, and have become very close friends. He is forever touching, stroking, pinching and cuddling me. He loves stroking my legs and he loves my tumy .He tells me i have ruined his romantic life, as he says he can never be with another woman without comparing them to me, yet he is happy to sleep with them. He tells me he loves me with all his heart, he hates the thought of any man going out with me, he doesn't want me to get married. What confuses me is that he kisses me on the cheeks really softly, and sometimes even the shoulders and neck. As much as he makes me weak when he does it, and he knows that i fancy him, why will he not kiss me on the lips? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): What is going on here? He is playing a game with you. He goes off and sleeps with others and yet strokes and caresses you, odd!! I would have a chat with this guy and ask him just what is going on. Do you want more from him, if so then let him know. If it isnt going to happen then tell him to buggar off!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): That's weird, if he loves you as he say he does, then he would want to kiss you, he should want to taste your lips. Kissing is very personal and I can't understand why he would not want to especially becasue your love is so new and exciting. I am sorry that you have a problem like this. You should be careful, he may end up hurting you emotionally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): You say that he is sleeping with other women, but you don't say if he is sleeping with you. I assume that he is, but from what you wrote it could also be that he is just going through the foreplay with you. If he is sleeping with other women and not with you, then he doesn't have any right to try to keep you from going out with other men. Even if he is sleeping with you, he doesn't have any right since he is sleeping with others. As you can tell, I am confused about what the situation is.
As far as not kissing you on the lips, for some time I had not kissed my wife on the lips very often. For our first few years we did a lot of kissing. I don't know why I stopped, but I am happy to say that we now enjoy that a lot again. Somehow, I guess I just didn't find kissing important for some time. My wife really missed me not kissing her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 October 2007): He sounds like a wonderful player. Not kissing you on the lips make you yearn for his touch more. It's his way of controlling you and adding gasoline to that spark in you. Mind you, just because he's a player, doesn't necessarily mean he's a bad person. It just means it's a part of his personality. Some guys are huge flirts, that LOVE the attention women give them AND they make it a personal hobby to give their own attention away as well. Just enough, but not enough to make you his.
Then again, I could be wrong and indeed it's just his own special way to show affection towards his friends.
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