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writes: I... I have this question In my mind....why some people have this angst face during sex as if they were hurt or something? I mean... I don't... Is it normal? Am I wrong for smiling and.. You know... Laughing a bit even, during sexual intercourse?If it's wrong, please tell me. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2023): I meant more like... Not only giros, i'm bisexual, and i always do what My partner tells me to do, and avoid what they tells me not to do, but Even trough they say they feel good it doesn't look like they actually do...
Maybe it's just they don't like me, or my face is ugly but they don't wanna say it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2023): If the people you are having sex with are close to your age, sex is probably new to them and indeed may be painful. Virginity or not, being tight or having a short vaginally canal could basically make sex feel like nothing but pressure, friction, and stretching. Maybe you're thrusting too hard or fast and hitting their placenta- that hurts! I'm 44, have had many sex partners and that hurts. Also, there's the emotional part. Are they asking to have sex or are you bringing it up and pressing them to change their mind on not doing it? Sounds like you're talking about more than one girl or more than one incident. From now on out, say, 'I feel like you're not enjoying sex. I will no longer request it or bring it up. The ball is in your court. If you want sex, tell me. That's the only time we'll have sex from now on" then FOLLOW THROUGH on that statement. As for the physical aspect of your relationship, ask if she's OK with oral. Say, "I'm not asking for it now. I just want to know if that's an option." If she says no or hesitates, drop it. Let her bring it up if she's ready.until then, stick with making out, cuddling (no groping or slapping butts or pinching nipples). Work on affection only. Talking emotional bonding. Let her bring up sex requests and set the boundaries.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2023): Grimacing? It's just something that humans do when they're putting in a lot of effort into something.
When humans are working certain muscles hard other muscles will contract in sympathetic response. Just take a look at someone lifting or pushing a very heavy load. They'll furrow their brows and clench their jaws even though contracting these muscles does nothing to actually help them with the task in hand.
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