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writes:One for girls who liked a guy, but turned him down anywayA guy approaches a girl out of nowhere. He's comfortable in his own skin. He looks pretty good. Dresses pretty good. He's got a good enough build. He's not rude. Etc.The girl doesn't have a BF, but doesn't want to exchange phone numbers. He's rejected!He could come up with an interpretation, 'I'm not attractive'.What are some valid positive or neutral interpretations?Thanks! Reply to this Question
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (10 December 2009):
 ..or maybe she thinks he is just trying to score/get in her pants and she is not interested in fickle casual relationships!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): There was a guy that hit on me at a bar I go to. He was cute and funny. I found myself attracted to him and I was technically available. The reason I refused to exchange numbers is because after hanging out with him for a while I came to the conclusion that he was out for sex only and I am looking for more. This could be the case with you or another reason could be that the girl you or "the guy" approached could have a crush on another man or be getting over a past relationship or simply have a lot going on in life to make her not want to get involved with someone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2009): It could be anything, but you sound like a good type of guy. If it were me, I still wouldn't give you my number because I've had some bad experiences doing that, like one guy who kept trying to call me and leaving long voicemail messages all the time for over a year until I changed my number. That was really annoying. So now I need to be talking to a guy for quite a while, feeling relaxed and comfortable as well as thinking we have a fair bit in common before I'd think about giving him my phone number. Maybe try asking for an email address instead - email is less intrusive somehow.
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