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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hey this is a really embarrassing question! Ive recently started having sex with my boyfriend and everything is great only for one thing. Everytime we have sex when he goes into me deep i fell the urge to pee. It will not go away and i always have to excuse myself to leave. It also happens when he fingers me but doesnt last as long. Could someone please tell me what this is? And is there any way i can stop it cause its really embarrassing me? My boyfriend thinks i might be a girl who comes like guys. Could this be true??
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reader, eyesramazing  +, writes (6 April 2008):
Your readers are correct. This is a perfectly normal sensation that can occur prior to orgasm or during an orgasm. Don't let it embarass you or interrupt the act of love making. I'm a "squirter. It used to embarass me before I fully understood my body and what I was experiencing. It does not happen every time I have intercourse, but most times. I love it. My man loves it; and truthfully it makes him feel like he has pleased me and he does. This is one time when I can agree that what is good for the goose is good for the gander.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (6 April 2008):
 It's also the feeling that you get from your "G" spot. It's a perfectly normal sensation, and it can lead to squirting. Just make sure that you go pee before sex. AND AFTER - very important in preventing urinary tract infections.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): it is always good for a female to go to the toilet before aswell as after sex :D it just helps.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (5 April 2008):
 It is normal for many girls to feel this urge, particularly when nearing orgasm or a high state of arousal. It usually does not really mean urination is inevitable or needed, although it may be a good idea to relieve prior to sexual activity. You have probably not yet experienced a full orgasm, based on your question. You should be able to eventually learn and become aware that this feeling is similar to, but different than a need to urinate, but is related to a massive release of tension.
Many men also have a similar feeling when about to ejaculate, but in reality a type of sphincter muscle has closed off the urinary tract during sexual activity, and the feeling of release is actually semen and sperm moving through the urethra tube. The same is true for women, although sperm is not produced, a small amount of a semen type fluid may be released.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (5 April 2008):
It is normal for many girls to feel this urge, particularly when nearing orgasm or a high state of arousal. It usually does not really mean urination is inevitable or needed, although it may be a good idea to relieve prior to sexual activity. You have probably not yet experienced a full orgasm, based on your question. You should be able to eventually learn and become aware that this feeling is similar to, but different than a need to urinate, but is related to a massive release of tension.
Many men also have a similar feeling when about to ejaculate, but in reality a type of sphincter muscle has closed off the urinary tract during sexual activity, and the feeling of release is actually semen and sperm moving through the urethra tube. The same is true for women, although sperm is not produced, a small amount of a semen type fluid may be released.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (5 April 2008):
 There are three possible explenations.
Simplest is, you got to pee. Men can't pee and ejaculate at the same time. The bladder actually closes off to prevent urine from coming into contact with sperm. Pre-cum has the role to clean the tract of any left over urine as urine is lethal to sperm.
Women have no such system in place. So you can pee during sex/orgasm. Easy way to check, go to the toilet and pee. If nothing comes out easily, then that isn't it.
The bladder is located in front of your vagina and during sexual activity presure on it may cause you to think your bladder is full. Similar to how you can press down on your stomach to create the same feeling. Simple prevention, go before sex.
Most likely however, the feeling is merely what comes before an orgasm. Many women describe the same sensation just before the climax. This question is extremely common.
Simple way to spot this one, have you ever had an orgasm or do you always stop because you think you got to pee?
It ain't related to female ejaculation, that involves other glands and is basically an orgasm+
If you want to be save, just go to the toilet before, but most likely it is just the build up to your orgasm.
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