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writes:Why after 4 months of (2 times a week) having unprotected sex with my married "boyfriend" does he want to START to use condoms?( I can't get pregnant either)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): he wants protection because he knows that if could easily have you, someone else will to - meaning, if you are opening your legs (you know the rest) then you are opening to someone else. so you know that he is having sex with you, his wife and do you know about anyone else he may just fancy? time to read between the lines. your married man is tiring of you, slowly putting the breaks on this. in fact he is the one in the drivers seat and you poor one, you are still questioning why.and for the record, he is NOT your boyfriend.He is someone's husband.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): 'Be careful he may actually, grow some morals next and dump you.' NO MINCING YOUR WORDS, ARMYMEDIC, SPOT ON."Hope he's buying you some nice stuff that you can sell when he eventually goes back to his wife / you stop believing that "she doesn't understand me" and "we never have sex" and "I'm only there for the children" EMILYANSWERS, TO THE T PERFECT. AWESOME AGONY AUNTS RESPONSES. KEEP IT COMING.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (14 April 2009):
 Emily is right as usual and has beaten me off the mark AGAIN!
You are having an affair with a married man, of course there is going to be no trust and a high chance of STIs what is worrying is that this IDIOT man hasn't taken precautions earlier!
I really hope you have had a STI check recently because this sudden change in heart is a worrying one as it suggests he has had some kind of sex education, which is often given at a GU Clinic. Be careful he may actually, grow some morals next and dump you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): Mrs Bossbitch, HE DOESN'T TRUST YOU.He knows that you are just his little thing on the side, easy and available. He knows that you do not value yourself and that you have just accepted that you are his screw on his off day. He knows that you suffer from low self esteem just accepting his crumbs that he offers you. What a clever man, brownie points for him! He actually is protecting his own interests. He knows that you may be getting too attached to him and is telling you, loud and clear that you are just his F*8k mistress. Trust the cheater not to trust his mistress.Babes, the writing is on the wall here. Babes, this is such a wicked world we live in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): well whether you can get pregnant or not you can still catch STI'smaybe he's just worried about that due to the amount of media attention it has been given lately.And, not to sound horrible but if he's willing to cheat on his wife with you how do you know he has/is not cheating with other people to?it sounds to me like it may be a better thing that he wants to use a condom
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (14 April 2009):
He's probably heard of a case where someone got caught because their Mrs caught clamydia from their cheating husband.
Either that or he's got a New third girl that he's shagging and she hasn't been for her STI check up in a while.
Either that or he's heard of someone who's mistress got pregnant (even when she said she couldn't) and then fleeced the guy and took him for all he had because she could blackmail him with the kid and say she could go to his wife.
You are only his bit on the side, he's hardly going to trust you or respect you. He's protecting him self and his life with his family so he can dump you when he gets bored of you and you'll have no come back.
If you sleep with married men then this is one of the things you must accept. Hope he's buying you some nice stuff that you can sell when he eventually goes back to his wife / you stop believing that "she doesn't understand me" and "we never have sex" and "I'm only there for the children"
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009): He probably is sleeping with a 3rd woman (Maybe even more) and one of them told him that she has an STD. He is probably trying to protect you while he figures out if hes infected or not. Thats exactly what happened to my friend and she actually had gonorhea (or however you spell it!) sorry!
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reader, bossbitch +, writes (14 April 2009):
Of course he still has sex with her, but why after 4 months of us having sex does he NOW want to start to wear condoms?
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