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writes:So I met this pretty girl she is single and I'm also singleWe met on a website, and we hung out And walked in the park she started holding hands with me and we made out for awhile like an hour or so Then next day we talked but not like the consistency of the days before hanging out but she didn't respond to my text the day after thatAnd ever since 2 weeks ago she hasn't texted me back So I erased her number and forgot about herBut like I'm asking because I'm confused.Why isn't she texting me back?Please tell me your opinions of this?Thank you in advance =D
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): How do you think the date went, aside from the holding hands and making out? Was her mood responsive? Generally, if the girl is in a happy mood, smiles, laughing, its a good indication that she is interested in you. I would say that the whole making out thing for an hour would imply so as well.What are your texts like? are they blunt? Im personally used to texting very coldly myself and not sparking any conversation or response at all with such one-word replies as "yep" "cool" "ah nice". I do this to see if I can get a reaction out of the girl. Most of the time I do ( which kind of lowers my interest level ). However, when a girl doesn't text back, it usually gets my interest level up and gets me thinking.For me, when I text and I dont get a response, I usually find it appropriate to make the next contact a call, either the next day or several hours later. In most cases, the girl will pick up and her mood is completely different than her texts. She seems in a very interested attitude and enjoys the conversation. (always remember to end it first though)I'm not sure how you text, but my text game is definitely best described as "cold hearted", "distant", "emotionless" which allows me such leniency.Just remember, if your a guy, girls expect you to call!She could be thinking that if you really liked her, you would call.ORShe could be thinking that she's not that interested in you.Either way, I'd say grow some balls, call her up, and see how she reacts. If she reacts in a negative, distant, cold attitude, then you should forget about her.If otherwise, congrats
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2011): She maybe just changed her mind. From my experience, when people make friends on the Internet, it's with a few people. I had a friend who did this, he ended up meeting up with a few girls before he "chose" one and although he didn't completely cut off all of the others, he didn't meet any of them and he very rarely contacted them. Don't take it personally, get to know someone in real life first, it's much easier to be yourself :)
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