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female
age
36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes: I am looking for advice on why a guy would ignore a girl. I recently found out that after a 'complicated' friendship with this guy ( we became good friends, hooked up a bit then faded apart to friends again), i find out he's ignoring me, not touching me, not texting me back, etc. Why is he doing this?Help!
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reader, KEY2URHEART32 +, writes (14 July 2008):
Prehaps he is seeing someone else or he is just not interested or unsure of his feelings. Young men can act strangely at times because they are unsure of their feelings and will run away and hide. But one thing you have to do is stop trying to get in contact with him (i.e. texting him...etc.)because it will only make him stay away from you that much more because he will see you as a nag and feel pressured. Even though this is a confusing or even hurtful period for you, you still have to exercise confidence...Stop trying to contact him...If a man does not find the time to contact you back...then you must follow his lead...perhaps he will contact you eventually and at that time you can have a honest discussion with him...but by all means don't sound nagging be straight forward with this guy...give him something to think about...best of luck to you...we are all in the struggle together with this thing called love/relationships.
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