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writes:havent seen my abusive ex in 7 months, since he damaged my property and was fined by the police for criminal damage. the cop involved also told him to stay away from me, not an injunction or anything just a verbal warning. then i filed for divorce and he didnt acknowledge the papers but the divorce is continuing anyway and will be final in august. but the weird thing is, is that some gas bills are being sent to my address for him 7 months after i havent seen him and he has no connection whatsoever with my property. yes i am sending them back where they came from but why has he had the damn things sent here? is it for attention or something, also he ia a very manipulative person?
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 I don't know if you have this kind of service in the UK, but in the US you can have a credit check run on yourself, just to make sure that there are no bills being run up in your name without your knowledge. If he's having the gas bills sent to your address, there may some other bills out there that have your name on them as well.
So contact the gas company directly, don't just mail them back without doing that, as it won't resolve the issue of the debt they seem to think you owe.
Definitely time to tell the soliciter too, just to make sure he knows about this odd situation.
I expect he thinks he's clever somehow. Watch your finances!
Hope it works out for the best.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 June 2008):
 What are the gas bills for? For your house or for his?
If they are for your house then you need to pay them, why should he pay them after all?
And if they are for his house then contact the gas company because they need to know what is happening. Just sending them back SHOULD do the trick but do you really want to have to explain this to a debt collector? Oh they will understand but best to avoid the hassle.
If they are for his he is just using it to get on your case. Deal with it without contacting him, if it persists, that is what your lawyer is for.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2008): Good for you! Stay strong.
He was probably hoping you will contact him.
Return it to the sender; very wise move!
Good luck!
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