Why is still telling me she wants space but she's sleeping in my bed?

A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i dont kno what i got my self into this time but i kno im not happy because of the desisions i made... ok a little background... i met this girl thru a friend i hadnt seen in years. we met at a party and hit it off well... we hung out many times as a group of friends and eventually she and i began to hang out alone... iv seen her every single day since iv met her. we hav even had sex a few times. here is the problem iv fallen for this girl and every 1 knows it... she says she like me alot too but her ex is commin home today... and apperently she still has feelings for him. because yesterday she told me via text while i was at work that she wanted space and wasnt over her ex fieancè yet. i was a little upset but i didnt show it... after i got out of work she insisted i come to her house for dinner.. i did... however i had a few friends comming to my place for beers. i left her house and she came to my apt and spent the night with me in my bed... nothing sexual this time but she told me this morning she was mad that i didnt hold her in my arms like i had in the past. i told her sorry and she told me she was sleeping over again tonight and that "id better hold her this time"... what is goin thru this girls head... is it worth pursuing.... why would she tell me she needed space because she doesnt want to go from 1 relationship to another so soon, but shes not takin space and is still sleeping in my bed? im confused as hell please help

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