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41-50,
*nanoymous
writes:Why is my friend planning such a thing? is she immature?my friend was very attached to me (she took me like her sister I felt) and so was i actually. i had other things going on and i distanced myself a bit because of stress in my life(things going on with family).my friend got insecure then and started to feel that i did not like her much and i was purposely distancing myself.we kept on arguing though i told her i needed time as i was already stressed with other things in my life which i told her about. i felt she would get jealous that i was ok without spending as much time with her like before or i had other things to do.i dumped her eventually as i felt she was only adding to my stress and being demanding and disrespectful of my time and how i chose to spend it.after i dumped her, she confided in a few of her friends. n in her conversations it seemed like she was guilty but confused if i distanced myself from her purposely. she also seems to feel guilty but at the same time angry as well. so, she says good and bad about me plus the bad she did.she and her friends are planning to pull a prank on me where they would tell me that someone in her family is dying just to see if i would care and go to help her. i can't reveal how i got to know this.why is my friend trying to pull such a prank on me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): May be immature. But you must look at the good side too. She likes you that much, that is why she needs that attention and acknowledgement from you.
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reader, damsel  +, writes (22 December 2008):
Hello, I am on your side with this.. A similar expereince basically the friend became a limpit draining my energy.Somtimes the only choice is to end it completely, you may feel guilty for a while though!! As for the prank it's childish immature and bad bad bad, you know about it- so go with the flow I'd say,let them do it, pretend your bothered, but you know it for what it is just a bad prank.
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