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writes: i used to know this boy in year 4. we were good friends, because he was nice back then. but then we moved up to high school. he's a couple of years older then me )he's 15), , so i came to the school later on. i saw him a couple of times and just fell for him, because not only was he so cute, but he was still nice. but then a couple of weeks later he started being quite mean. at first i didnt ignore it, but i managed after a couple of times. after that he started being nice for a while. like, he was buying me lunch and helping with my homework. then he started being mean again! now this whole thing has been going around in circles, and i've had enough of it! so, two questions here. why is he doing this, and how should i move on? any help is very much appreciated!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2014): He's being very immature and is messing with your feelings. There are different reasons. He may be mean to you to see your reaction. He might like you too. A lot of people start off by being mean then what do you know? They're like star-crossed lovers or something.Even though he might like you, you should move on, because the way he's trying to find out is not a nice way.How should you move on? Try focusing on all the neggative things, on obviously the main part. He's messing with your mind. Why would you want to date anyone like that. Keep thinking about that, and another more mature guy will come along. Good luck, x!
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (2 February 2014):
 Maybe he's been teased by peers for being nice to you, so he switch to being mean.
Maybe... YOU need to IGNORE him completely ( say hi if HE says hi first, but don't stop and talk, don't accept lunch or homework help) Pretend he is a stranger.
Seems like he is quite a yo-yo.
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