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Why is my boyfriend taking longer to orgasm during sex these days?

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Question - (10 September 2016) 3 Answers - (Newest, 16 September 2016)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Dear Cupid

I'm with my bf for past 6 months, sex been great till now, we meet every weekend.

Past couple of times, I am seeing him taking too long to come during sex, asked him once, said he is enjoying so he is delaying, but previous time I didn't feel like he is delaying voluterialiy and we did foreplay. What would be the reason, does it mean he is not attracted to me anymore, I'm worried, I like him. Please help me.

He doesn't have any work related or family related issues I know off. Thanks for reading

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2016):

You don't tell us the times. About how long did he used to take, and how long does he now?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (12 September 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntCould be a number of other things as well, is he on medication? Maybe his libido has changed, either way am sure it has nothing to do with him being not attracted to you, just enjoy it.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2016):

He masturbates.

Nothing to do with attraction.

96% heterosexual guys do it.

Its often a passing thought. i.e "Oh..think I'll rub one out", proceeds to masturbate without conscious thought.

Its Maintenance. often not sexual unless with an actual women.

We do it to release. else we'll be tense. Downside is delayed ejaculation during sex.

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