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36-40,
*aogwan
writes: I dnt understand something could some help me, im really confused between the brains of a male n female i know they are both very different bt i just want to make sense of it! Why is it that SOME girls like guys to be experienced and guys hate it when their girls are more experienced?? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2007): It's because if girls guys aren't experienced then they aren't goin 2 get very far wiv them.
Nd guys hate there girl bein more experienced cus they feel intimidated that there girl is better than them at sum fin it makes the guy feel weak!
Hope this helps!x
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (18 April 2007):
This is a simple example of the different ways men and women think about sex. Women are embracing sex more these days but men feel they have always and still should, control it. We want our men to know what they're doing so when can get something out of it, which is very rare anyway! Men like to be the first, or one of the first, to be with a girl they want to get serious about. I don't think they're too bothered if it's just someone they're sleeping with.
That annoys me: men want their sex partners to be experienced and dirty but their girlfriends to be innocent and inexperienced. But I won't start ranting, I honestly don't understand men at all! I can only tell you from a womans point of view.
There are majorly differing views between men and women on sex, this is just one of them. It all goes back to how we've been brought up and conditioned by the world to see ourselves sexually. Things won't change, it's just something we have to accept - we're never going to understand each other!
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