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41-50,
*azzie1
writes:Why is it so difficult to keep my ex out of my mind..I have 2boys that aren't his 15 and 9 worked really hard to get to where I am. Have a great job my own apartment and raising my boys to be the best that they can be. I know the best thing to do is to leave him because he's into illegal stuff..but I am so used to him and how he is so giving I don't ever have to spend a dollar and I think I got used to that cuz everytime we break up I start missing him. He has changed from being abusive and a cheater. HE spends every minute with me and answer's all my calls to prove that he's not doing anything to jeopardize the relationship but I noticed that when he's getting upset I cannot be the real me and express myself by blowing off steam cuz I start shaking. He actually told me when I went to his house Bitch, if your unhappy then get the fuck out of my house and that's what I actually did walked out of his house last night. He had the audacity to tell me that how do I accept to have anything with him by leaving over petty things. I think that was the best thing I did cuz it's been 5yrs and I don't see us moving in together. We tried it 2 years ago but I kicked him out for putting his hands on my by chokin me in my own apt god forbid my kids witnessed it..Am I like in need of a therapist cuz I really do think that maybe he can be normal if he was to stop doing the stuff he's doing..like a working and respectful man.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): It's not right to say because you don't want to be without support meaning money. Your children need to feel safe. Something to think about...... Get a better job and make your own money.
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