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26-29,
*iveurlife
writes:Hi Aunts, i need your help.There this guy well actually hes my best friend. I've always loved him, we have gone out together a couple of times. But now we're just friends. Since we've moved to year 8 we've grown further apart. And it breaks my heart to see him wit different girls. he told me likes one of my mates, n it nearly made me cry. He told me that he thought i was beautiful once and i should stop putting myself down. I want to no how he feels abut me and if he loves me back. I don't no wot to do help me!!
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (3 July 2010):
 Hi.
I've been where you are, and I know it's so horrible.
If you've gone out a few times and it hasn't really gone anywhere you have to ask yourself if you guys can last together, and would you risk your friendship for something that may or may not work?
The bright side to this is that at Year 8/9.. the handful of guys in your life are the entire world, but this will change. As you grow and get further through school you'll be able to have guy friends and boyfriends at the same time! Give yourself time, at age 13 - 15 you're hardly about to elope! Tell him how you feel and if he's not interested, at least you have a guy friend to talk with about whether this new guy you like just looked at you a bit too long or was it just you...? ;)
Good luck!
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reader, HAARP  +, writes (3 July 2010):
Tell him how you feel. He might be trying to make you jealous by taking a liking to one of your friends. And if things don't go the way you want, you two can still be good friends. You decide from here on out.
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