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anonymous
writes:Hello i was chatting with my boyfriend whom i met on a dating site we have been chatting for 3 months and live in the same country but have not met yet .His subscription ended so he asked for my contacts so that we continue out of the site.One day i sent him a romantic poem he said he liked it very much soon after he sent me message with this(.... )I asked him the meaning he said try to understand it as you want. I asked him if he was shy to express his feelings, he replied am just wary. What does he really mean!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2015): You have never met, so he can't really have feelings for you. You are infatuated through your imagination. There can't be real feelings for a person you've never met. He will start to believe there is something wrong with you, if you don't settle down. You're asking him for a make-believe romance.
If your poems are love poems, and you are expressing too much affection; he is wondering if you're okay. You have to meet and evaluate his personality; to see if he lives up to the image you have created of him in your mind. You have feelings for the idea of what you've imagined him to be, not who he really is.
In reality, he can't express any feelings until he has spent considerable time with you in-person and knows who you are. You're familiar, not officially connected. He has nothing he can attach his feelings to; nor do you at this point.
He's going to think you're a little wacko. Take it slow and easy. Meet the guy, and decide how you like him then.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2015): Hello.
three months....never met....yet he is your boyfriend?
I would be more concerned here that you haven't met and yet the commitment- certainly from you- is pretty intense.
Please be careful. This guy could be anyone, have any kind of life wherever he lives, with whoever. be careful you don't give too much of your time and emotional commitment here without meeting and thoughts about any future together.
In regards to the poem. again he may find it full on? or maybe he's not romantic, or maybe. ....anything! because you guys are calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend yet haven't met.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2015): as you lean in to get hooked a little further i must ask why you think this person can offer you a future because you have concocted the romance in his head. Soon he will only have to ask for your bank account details and you will provide them.His little fake emoticom means nothing and you should ask yourself why it means nothing.He is giving nothing away,he may not be who you think he is,he probably wouldnt want you to know his true personal details even if he got your credit card number and you are probably the fifth or sixth willing victim he's had this year.But he knows your all hyped up looking for lurve but you are just another fish responding to his bait and chances are you wont even put up a fight for survival.
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