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female
age
51-59,
*rizona
writes:I'm 43, I've been dating a man for a little over 2 months now. He says he's not ready for a commitment right now and that's ok, we've only been dating for a little while. Yet, his brother, mother and most of his other family know me as his girl-friend. Yet, he has profiles at three free dating sites. What's up with that?? Should I ask him about that??Am I just his doormat??? He sends mixed signals, why is he still out there looking? Is he trying to find something better? Am I not good enough? Reply to this Question
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reader, veronica.87 +, writes (27 October 2008):
2 months is too early for that kind of commitment. Do your own thing and he'll realize you mean business. I had to do that tomy boyfriend when we started dating he wanted to see what else was out there so i gavehim his space and when he saw that i could go out and have fun without him or that i wasn't sitting on the couch crying over him he wanted me back but i didn't take him back easily we had to go on dates be seen together with his friends and my freinds and meet the family and hang with them then after a while he'll really see how good of a match you two are because of how well you get along with everyone on his side and yours i hope i helped out a little good luck!
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