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writes:Im a teenager and So here is a guy in my class that sits next to me. well hes a popular guy in my school amd hes flirty and an outgoing guy wiyh girls and others. but when hes around me he just seems to be super quiet and shy. and when ever i talk to him i just notice how nervous he is. Can somebody explain why?
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reader, Sensible Alice  +, writes (18 March 2014):
 It might be possible he likes you or is worried about what you think of him. It could be that you intimidate him. He can clown around with everyone else, but might feel you'd consider it childish if he did that with you. Maybe he wants to make a good impression on you - or thinks he can't joke around with you. It could be any number of reasons, but I think it's sweet he allows you to inadvertently see this shy, nervous side of him, a side that he usually hides with his clowning around. Just be yourself, don't ask him any pointed or personal questions, keep the conversation general. Consider it a compliment that he doesn't feel the need to act the clown with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2014): The people that he is so openly friendly with are people he knows more personally. They probably hangout, and might be friends on Facebook. He's quiet around you; because you may not be a part of his usual circle for friends; or he is just more used to outgoing people. If you're quiet and all you do is look at him, then he will think you're not very outgoing.
He probably figures he intimidates you. If you don't know the people he knows, he doesn't see you anywhere, but in class; so you're just another classmate.
So, why do you think he's quiet around you? Why are you quiet around him?
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