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Why is he so cold towards me or am I just paranoid???

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Question - (16 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2010)
A male Finland age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a problem with my bf. Actually, he is not my bf, just, we've been dating, flirting with him for 2 months and we both are accustomed to each other. He lives far far away from me and it's like a "long distance realtionship". We send "good morning" text messages to each other and we text all day long and we talk every night for hours. But we are not "in a relationship" yet, yes, we both still didnt express our feelings but it's obvious that there is something between us and that's not friendship and it's obvious again that we are in love with each other.

Recently, he came to me a bit cold. I dont know why. When I talk to him, he is perfect but he looks like he is busy or in a hurry or he seems to have things to do that are more important than me. In my opinion I have made him bored and it looks like we're stuck :/// and i really dont know what to do now???

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (19 March 2010):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntyou need to meet up in the flesh to make sense of things, maybe he wants more than to talk. suggest to him that you meet up.

meet up, make the effort

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2010):

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I really dont know what to do :/ he looks like he is making excuses and looks cold to me, he used to compliment me a lot and used to say cute things more, now still he does but fewer that before and i think it's because we stuck on conversations because we talk whole day longs and i think i need more interesting topics to talk :/// am I sooo paranoid or crazyy ???

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A female reader, Moo's Mum New Zealand +, writes (16 March 2010):

Moo's Mum agony auntIf it's meant to be it will be. Just take it easy and carry on as you have been and see what happens.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2010):

Dont look into it too much he might have a lot on his plate or something has gone wrong and if your close he might take it out on you but not no it give it a day or two and see whats going on,

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