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Why is he ignoring my texts so soon after I heard he liked me?

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Question - (19 November 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 November 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *umbling_blonde writes:

hey, on a recent night out it got back to my crush that I liked him. his friend told a mate of mine he liked me too and although we didnt get a chance to speak properly that night, he put his number in my phone and said to give him a text. i did so later that night and he text back straight away, he also text the following day first, then the day after when i didnt expect him to then he text first again two days later on the wednesday after he'd been out with friends to the cinema.

so everything seemed to be going well, texts were friendly and normal, i didnt mention meeting early on or anything to put him off and he seemed really keen. I sent him a text on the friday asking how his day was - no reply. i left it over the weekend right up until wednesday when i bumped into him briefly at my gym, didnt have time to chat as i was heading into my class, and he said 'hi' and smiled, seemed really friendly and pleased to see me so then i thought maybe he didnt get the text so i text again that night asking what he'd been up to - again no reply!!

I can't work him out, I cant understand why he would have lost interest so quickly when he was doing all the texting first and also seemed genuinely happy to see me at the gym. Can anyone shed light on why he's ignoring my texts please?? Thanx! xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2010):

He could be busy, no credit on his phone, lost his phone etc... Are you sure he's single? If it's really bothering you then just give him a call.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (19 November 2010):

Honeypie agony auntWhy do people not just pick up the phone and call?

I don't know why he is ignoring your texts, but I wouldn't text him any further, I would call him and TALK to him, now if he doesn't answer, I wouldn't try again. The ball would be in his court.

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