A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: This guy is my friend and he likes to flirt with me, but he has a girlfriend. People say they are having problems because his GF wants to leave him mainly because he lost his job and is full of debts. He says they are having problems for the same reasons. The thing is I always find him waiting for her after work or sometimes at lunch.I think he loves her, but he says she's boring him mainly because she is treating him with discontent and apathy and that he's just going with the flow until one of them finally surrender and break up. Hmmm I like him, but I don't know whether to believe him and what to tell him. Advice please as to what to do?
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reader, bitterblue +, writes (28 November 2010):
Stop flirting is what you can do and no need to tell him anything, surely he does not count on you in particular to advise him. Don't trust guys that tell you they don't get along with their girlfriends. This is often not true but makes you think they are about to break up anyway, so you can feel less guilty when you flirt with them, although they are NOT single and available.
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