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writes: Hi, im fourteen and now im feeling kind of awkward! All of my friends have gone out with girls, kissed them and whatnot. Im now just wondering why i haveNt. Not trying to be arrogant, but i'm good looking, brainy, muscular and nice, and i've had a few girlfriends! Has it just not been my time yet? Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, vrysadgrl +, writes (17 March 2006):
 Dont worry people move at there own pace, im 14 and havent even been in a relationship. give it time, you will find someone special, dont rush into your first kiss, it is a very special thing.
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reader, danb +, writes (27 January 2006):
mine was 16 so u got plenty of time, just let it happen and dont worry
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reader, Thomms +, writes (26 January 2006):
 Dude, your time will come don't you worry. Chill - it's natural, I didn't kiss my first girl until 15, you got time. ;) - Thom
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks 'willywombat'.See what ya mean now ;)
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (26 January 2006):
 Dont worry it may be that you are just thinking about it too much, this is causing you stress and you may just be missing the girls cue, my guess is that because you are stressing over this it has become a huge issue and you are in danger of confusing the situation and mixing up the signals, relax, chill and let her make the first move, be yourself girls like that!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2006): What I learned from growing up was that"14 is still quite young to have a Frenchkiss, only a few really have-although you might have some faster moving friendsif some girls are talking to u like they fancy you but you don't understand exactly what they are going too fast, don't be rude to them because you don't fancy them or one of them.Be polite and friendly and perhaps practice Fren kissing one of them when you have thought about it all and have figured it out.Get an objective view of yourself, do girls get excited when they meet you and then put you down 10 minutes later? It's probably something to do with the way this you express yourself and so on.The most important lesson I had was that if a really normal fat girl asks you to make out with her, when you are a virgin at 17, let her go down on you without having full sex, trust me you need the experience. then you can be confident around other girls.Don't be jealous of guys that have have two years more maturity than you, and that are more natural around girls and go to parties, focus on being friends with girls and sometimes looking at them nails and taking their hand so that you are used to contact. In time you will become like them.Pass on this information to friends, and try and get a Big Brother figure to ask these kinds of things to.
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reader, willywombat +, writes (26 January 2006):
 I don't want to sound patronising so I will try really hard not too!
14 isn't any great age not to have kissed someone....it will happen for you at the time it's meant to. Just 'cos your mates are ahead of the game, doesn't mean you are lacking. I wish you all the joy that your first kiss will bring.
Sorry, that did sound patronising, but I really do hope life treats you well.x
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