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writes:hey :)i am 15 and i would say i am kind bubbely and chatty.But my freinds say i am stuuning i dont think that though and they say i have everything eg the looks,the body and the persanality but i dont agree! Becouse i have never had a boyfriend not even a first kiss i mean boys notice me in the street like whislting and shouting things or beebing there car but that happens to everyone. So why havent i had a boyfriend? what is wrong with me and dont say " dont worry your still young" becouse in my mind its a bad thing and i am young but i am nearly 16 so i am not that young.please help xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): Ha! wait until you are 20 and have yet to had a bf. thats the boat im in. i dont think anything is wrong with you. beauty intimidates many guys so that could be part of the problem. just give them subtle hints that you are interested and they will come around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): Look at it from a different point of view sweetie, maybe there is something wrong with them.
most guys at young ages feel some what intimidated by beautiful girls... they have a fear of rejection.
Im not going to tell you to not worry about it. but, what good has it done you to worry about it? I mean have you gained any knowledge from it?
they whistle and shout cause... thats safe... !
i mean think about the hottest guy in school... are you willing to just walk up and start the whole thing? NOOOO why? well the answer is obvious.
There is nothing wrong with you at all, don't second guess yourself and try to be patient. The right guy with enough nerve will come around one day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2009): im only 16 and got my first boyfriend a year ago, im still with him, very much in love wih him + im glad that i waited to find him rather than go out with everybody and anybody like a lot of my friends, it just makes him even more special. Just don't worry about it, i think you need more confidence in yourself aswell, the thing boys find attractive is confidence, stop putting yourself down :)x
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reader, lovemybabe17  +, writes (7 October 2009):
lol well..you ARE still young but i get where your coming from..nothings wrong with you. try talking to friends and see if they know anyone thats looking for a girlfriend. i barely got my first boyfriend and first kiss when i was 15. give it some time and let people know your looking.
good luckk:)
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reader, charlie p +, writes (6 October 2009):
Don't worry. It's not a race. Do you know many boys socially?
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