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41-50,
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writes:Help im so confused! I been with my boyfriend just over a yr and half we have a 7 month old daughter together. We have had our problems, with him drinkin but he is doin much better now. I do love him and am attracted to him its just for a while now i feel i lost my sexual drive. Im not bothered about sex with him and dont really like kissing him. I have also considered cheatin on him. Why am i feelin like this and can i do anythin to help it?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (4 February 2009):
 have you tried new things in the bedroom to stop your boredom? talk and tell him how you feel, say that your lacking in sex drive right now and you need abit of motivation. dont cheat on him, it will make the situation worse! if you are planning to cheat then you may aswell leave him, theres a chance he may find out and you will end up seperated anyway. everyone gets bored sometimes, you're not alone in this! dont forget, you're not superwoman! you have a seven month old baby, i admire you for taking care of her, sometimes you can feel completely drained after a day of looking after a child. if you need to reconnect with your partner, get a babysitter, relax, take a long bubble bath and talk. do this as often as possible. remember the mind is the largest sex organ for a woman, it needs stimulated so if you're bored then try new things like watching porn together. keep me updated. xx
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