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writes: Please help me out with this sexual question.. I'm at my wit ends, I really don't get this. My husband and me, are living in a very strange place. So he says. I love you, you are my love. But we are together naked in bed, and he does not get an erection. I can stimulate him, be passionate with him but nothing. Not even a sign..When I'm naked, he wouldn't even look at me... Now I look good, and HE IS HEALTHY, he has no medical causes, and his penis is erect in his sleep. we did stamp test. This has been going on now for too long... What could be wrong with a man, who is not getting excited from a nice warm, naked woman? He says -''nothing turns me on'' not even porn or anything.. sex is dead for me''I think he does not fancy me, but he says it's not the case.I'm so sad, really. What should I think? Is there anybody went trough with the same thing? I really need some advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 January 2009): Thanks. I was wondering what do you mean on ''mental block''?
He says he feels very connected, but I can;t belive it as he never gets turned on from me.
It really means never. He says sex is out for him , but he is only 48..And he was a very high sex man. What can be wrong here? Thanks
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (23 January 2009):
 Well, at least you all are in love and working through this together.
How long has this been going on? Guys bodies go through changes just like womens, so he may just being going through a phase right now.
Is he stressed about anything? A lot of the time stress kills your libido.
If you can, plan a weekend away, relax, and don't pressure anything! Don't even give a hint that sex is wanted or expected. Enjoy each others company and enjoy life together. Give him a massage and just have him relax.
I haven't experienced this, so I can't be more helpful. I wish you the best of luck!
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