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*hoenix
writes: Everything right now feels so nightmarish. It's really a long story, but the short version is this: I started dating an amazing girl early summer last year. Everything was going very well, until she randomly dumped me for another guy. A month later, after their relationship crashed, she wanted to come back to me, but I was so hurt that I didn't really want it. After five months of pleading, I let myself fall in love with her again. However, days after I told her that, she told me she didn't want a relationship with me anymore. However, she said she loved me and was attracted to me, so she wanted me to wait for her. So I did.Now, after all this waiting, she's really starting to treat me bad. She tells me that I'm unattractive and she doesn't want me anymore. She says I get emotional too easily (but how can I help it when she treats me like this?). She was my best friend. I lost her. All I ever wanted was to make her happy, but she always puts me down, pushes my buttons to make me feel horrible about myself. She used to be the person I would turn to when I felt upset, but now...I have to let her go. It's just so hard. I don't know what to do, who to turn to. I feel so... unattractive. What can I do? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): i know how hard it is to want someone to want u. but honey, it sounds like she doesnt want u at all. leaving someone u love is very hard, and a person can advice off the net on how to recover from a breakup. if she doesnt change her attitude soon ur going to be stuck in a emotionally abusive relationship. well i sounds like ur already there. when u start to believe that ur unattractive, then u need to let her go, if she doesnt start making u feel better about urself and soon, ur insecurities and low self esteem will be damaging in future relationships. im sorry that she treats u the way she does. u sound like a good person with a big heart
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006): You have my 200% sympathy, but that doesn't help
much. You seem to have been suffering for a long
time. Maybe you are her "backup" guy? That's not
the best position to be in. But she's
your best friend, too! so there must be some
good things. I thing that time will tell, though
that's a cliche response. In the meantime, you
should look around for someone who makes you
feel you're the best!
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