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writes:Why would a guy tell you that he'll contact you as soon as he's free / has some time, then he never contacts you again - Is it just a polite way of cutting you off or does he intend to come back to you at some stage or you are his 'back up'. I know it may seem obvious but he's the one that suggested meeting up again! Problem is I can't seem to forget him even though clearly he's forgotten me, I know he would contact me asap if he wanted to see me etc as he used to when he went through his stage of being obsessed with me! It sucks, it's like he's still got some kind of hold over me Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Maybe you are just not his type and this is his way of getting away. We are not everyone ideal partner, thank god! so you need to look on it as a lucky escape.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 well i hate to say it but, yes i think that he may have been trying to let you down easy. how long has it been since you saw him? the reason why he's still got some hold over you is because your still hoping that there may be something still there. as long as your waiting for him to contact you, he's got the hold over you. i suggest moving on and meeting new ppl who wont leave you hanging. after all its his loss!
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reader, Lucy2118  +, writes (26 February 2008):
 I think it bothers you that he hasn't contacted you, thats the hold he has on you, because no girl likes being cut off. Forget about him and find someone new, sooner or later he'll come crawling back wondering why your not bothered anymore, it'll drive him insane with the fact you've moved on and he hasn't.
Hope this helps.
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