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anonymous
writes: Any advice to me, who is single, and is NEVER getting in a relationship again, EVER EVER NEVER AGAIN...EVER, as to a facebook short term, but last ex, who has just posted he's in a relationship? (After 'appearing' to have 'hidden' his wall for the last month and a half'... (Made sure I saw this in my news feed though!!)I can't delete or block him now, because it would look like I have seen my arse (which I have a bit, lol, at least I'm honest!!)What a shite boxing day I'm having, working all over Christmas, missing a deceased loved one, and then I see this!!! Good job I have a soh!!!Do I comment? Like? Ignore it? I do NOT want him to know it has upset me?! (P.S. I'm not such a bitch that I wouldn't want them to be happy really, but I think the timing of me seeing it is just wrong!?)Thanks, Aunts/Uncles advice (no lectures), appreciated muchly!!) x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanx anonymous (es x 3!)
I didn't look at his wall by the way, it just popped up in the news feed!
I will hide his news feed from now on...tbh, I think I may well deactivate my facebook for a while!! I actually feel sorry for the girl, knowing what he is like! (For someone who said he 'doesn't want a relationship', and 'wants to be single', this is his 3rd one this year...!!!)Lol.
Thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): anonymous is right. fake it. pretend you're not interested and moved on. it will get under your skin but keep pushing forward and eventually you will be over him like he's over you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2011): don't do anything. don't like it, don't comment, don't delete him. This will show that you have moved on, no longer care enough to be interested etc. Hide him from your news feed if you have to. He is in a new relationship and you need to forget about him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2011): Hit the ignore option and dont look again. He's your ex now.
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