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*rev86
writes:my gf hasnt been giving me respect as her man, lover. we became a couple in may, but she dumped me in july n we got back together same month.i found out in that time she had sex with another man. i also found out by going through her emails that i was just a rebound bf to her and that she couldnt love me.that was 4months into the relationship.she told me she changed and want to be with me, even wanted to get pregnant. then started disrespect: saying i dnt scare her, no matter what she says or do i ll never hit her.she drinks i dnt, when i told her i dnt lyk her drinking n partying she said i should with it, she wont change. even worse she would come to my flat tipsy wanting to make love.alcohol turns me off.shes also selfish sexualy:it takes me long to cum lyk 45min upwards, her like 15mins. so when shes satisfied she pushes me away.she sumtimes give me a handjob bt start complaining that i dnt cum n shes tired.this is sexualy frustrating-i even go down on her but the thanks i get:just because u go down on me daznt mean i owe u anything.she recently refused to let me stay at her flat for a couple of weeks while i settle in my new job.she refused nt because she cnt or think we shudnt live together but because i ll cramp her style. she dznt want anyone who ll b asking questions if she decides nt to cum home. what is it with women not appreciating good guys? what should i do? im thinking of breaking up with her. problem is i love her,i jst dnt feel she loves me back nor do i trust her completely
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reader, Trev86 +, writes (2 January 2009):
Trev86 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice.i ll see her in feb as she went home for the vac.funny enough i still think it will be fair if i wait till then, rather than breaking up over the phone.what a way to start a new year! i forgot to mention she like making me jealous by talking abt her ex. i finaly see the light- break up
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): dude shes a headcase! FIND ANOTHER WOMAN! MOVE ON AND HEAL AND TIME WILL REWARD YOU WITH A REAL WOMAN WHO CAN SHOW LOVE BACK. GOODLUCK
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reader, nokutenda  +, writes (2 January 2009):
break up with her,you deserve so much better.......
she knows you love her,thats why she walks over you.put an end to this.
not all of us girls don't appreciate good guys
l know you love her but you will only keep hurting.find something to keep you busy
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): look i suggest you cut your loses and walk a dignified man, i would die to get a man like you, but its all in the open that this woman doesnt appreciate you being in her life and doesnt value the relationship you guys have,
i think you should just sit her down when she is not tipsy, put your story on the table, you are you own person and old enough to know whats best for you,the ball is certainly in court,its up to you what to do with it,
please let me know how it works out
tumi
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