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writes:I am a black, fairy attractive young female. I've always been attracted to white guys because of my background. I'm pro interracial relationships and plan to settle down with a different race (white).I want to know why is it that hot attractive white guys don't date black girls?They only seem to happen on TV or movies like the one of Ashton Kutcher and Zoe Saldana's Guess Who's Coming to Dinner. Most black and white interracial couples are black men and white women.White guys-black girls relationships I've seen in South Africa tend to fit the stereotype: Tall, dark skinned model type with the older rich white sugar daddy.....hot black chick who dates an unattractive white guy just 'cause she wants to be seen on a white guy's arm when she can clearly can get a hotter guy in her own race.....two "trailer trash" type couple....or Europian tourist (mainly Germans) who want an African girl.Please don't take offence to my post and no rude racist answers either. Reply to this Question
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reader, KITcAThottie  +, writes (8 April 2011):
I think there's hope and at you'll probably find a hot white guy. I'm attracted to white guys to ive only dated one. I don't know why white guys usually don't go for black girls I wish they did because white guys are pretty hot. Certain guys do, just got to find them. So good luck hope you find who your looking for :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question@Jagdpanther, thanks for answering as I would like to hear more fom guys like you....those who are living the experience. Interesting insight from your POV.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (16 October 2010):
 Yes they might be intimidated because of what society has taught them. So some might think "It's a black woman, she is probably from the slums" while others will know "It's a black woman...I should probably get to know her" (Obviously not literally what their thoughts would be like but, basically).
And then there is always the family acceptance factor. I have seen at least two or three on this website alone with people complaining about their parents not accepting their black boyfriend or girlfriend. But that can always be overcome. Just find someone who will at least get to know you and see if you like him, I know plenty of white guys who would love to date a black girl, it is just what attracts them, all other problems can be dealt with later right?
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbernard, sounds like you have problem with interracial relationship. To each their own but not on my thread.
Say something constructive or intelligent or move on to the next one instead of making Americans seem like shallow minded jerks....and I know they aren't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): I can partially help with this question. I'm considered a 'hot white guy' (though that's not how I see myself). I'm attracted to fit coloured ladies more than white ones but I have never dated a coloured lady. The reason? It's just so hard to meet them! I think cultural differences have, over time, kept the two apart and that is still happening to some extent today.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCerberus I like your answer because it gives hope and I am sure there are some hot white guys dating black girls but what I want to know is why most of them are too scared to ask a black girl out.
Are they afraid they'll be judged by their friends and family? I read a comment on some forum and one person said that white guys don't date blacks because they are gettho.
I'm really interested to hear your opinions a views so please keep the answers coming.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (16 October 2010):
I have seen plenty of interracial relationships like the ones you are looking for. My maths teacher had a black wife for example. I am pretty sure she is not with him for financial gain because they live in Hong Kong.
There are lots of reasons why that would not work though, families may not agree, there is always the cultural differences. Then there are the masses of reasons why it would work, because they love each other. We are people anyway and even though there are always ethnic differences/similarities that people tend to take advantage of, there is no reason why you will not be able to just find someone who would want to date you. Maybe you could travel if that is possible for you? Just meet people and you will find someone.
I hope that helps.
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