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30-35,
*ataluke
writes:Hay people, I need some help.Me and my girlfriend are great but there is something that bothers me. Its nothing bad but I would like to correct it.We have great sex and I love giving her oral and she loves giving it to me but I can never feel any sensation when she does it, hand or mouth. I don't know why. I can sometimes take a while to climax during sex but I eventually feel something. I don't know how to broach the subject as I have commented on it before and its really hit her confidence seen as I'm her first lover.Firstly I want to know why I can't feel anything and secondly I want to know how I can tell my girlfriend without hurting her.Thanks for your help guys :)
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reader, Dataluke +, writes (18 August 2011):
Dataluke is verified as being by the original poster of the question I will try to reduce my masturbation and see what happens, thank you :)
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reader, person12345  +, writes (18 August 2011):
 I'm guessing the taking awhile during sex and feeling very little during oral are connected. Some guys just have a harder time getting there, and that's OK. It's not required that you love oral sex, if that doesn't do it for you, that's OK. Focus on what does do it for you. However, I'm also wondering if you are using a super firm grip when you masturbate? Because that can desensitize you a bit. If you masturbate a lot, you may want to try cutting back to see if that helps at all.
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